This is going to sound so strange, but I am being honest. I am looking for a husband. And would like to have a kid or two. A real honest, loving guy who is tired of dating and is wanting to get serious. Not expecting to get married on a first date or a second one would like to create a long term relationship. Start slowly as friends, date, and build a great relationship based on honesty and trust. Love, laughter, caring, understanding, accepting each other, all parts of a healthy relationship.